tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post8076788716356997245..comments2024-01-13T19:31:57.599-08:00Comments on Cave Mother: Missing: PeriodCave Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08489375502067939290noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-67078393000567318522019-10-08T10:56:33.954-07:002019-10-08T10:56:33.954-07:00Hi there very cool web site.Everyone should read.I...Hi there very cool web site.Everyone should read.I’m glad to find so many useful information here within the<br />put up. For more amazing info everybody can find from this link <br /><a href="https://skillsscoop.com/why-is-my-period-late-what-s-the-reason-behind-it/" rel="nofollow">My Period Late</a>Awaisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-90020126250135949412012-02-17T06:14:20.619-08:002012-02-17T06:14:20.619-08:00I got my first period about 3 - 4 months postpartu...I got my first period about 3 - 4 months postpartum despite breastfeeding on demand, co-sleeping, etc. My child is also very high-needs and is still nowhere near sleeping through the night at nearly 11 months old. She is also not doing all that well on eating solids, so I breastfeed a few times a day. However, I refuse to believe my body is ready for another pregnancy as I had a c-section that took quite a long time to heal. But I just might be one of those insanely fertile women ... never even TTCed, it just happened. So that might be another variable. I would say do not worry about it. We are all different and all of these averages are just that ... averages of data collected from many different people.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-31691727136978396052010-02-14T08:50:53.967-08:002010-02-14T08:50:53.967-08:00Late commenting here but here goes. After my littl...Late commenting here but here goes. After my little boy was born my period hid away for 23 months. Even my GP was beginning to suggest that I might need a few hormone tests within the next month or two. But when it did arrive it must have brought super fertility with it as we had two no-play months to allow me to adjust back to "normality" and then I conceived on the third month, ie the first month of "lets leave it up to nature". <br />For that whole time Cain was nursing every couple of hours throughout the night and co-sleeping, which may be why it took so long. Oh and maybe my age too, being in my late 30's?Beckshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17466290600198101552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-3897757649491748472010-01-29T17:06:59.255-08:002010-01-29T17:06:59.255-08:00I found your blog through "HoboMama's&quo...I found your blog through "HoboMama's" link. I read your "About Me" and giggled a little. I have an 18month old that has been teaching me more than I her. She taught me about attachment parenting and on demand nursing. Life has been a little and I mean a little simpler since. She is my little "high-needs" baby. I love her so much for teaching me so much. Thanks for sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-48351209183583099632010-01-29T08:45:45.666-08:002010-01-29T08:45:45.666-08:00Makes you wonder where the supposed 14 month avera...Makes you wonder where the supposed 14 month average comes from doesn't it?Cave Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08489375502067939290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-69833644471092395202010-01-28T21:43:44.042-08:002010-01-28T21:43:44.042-08:00Lucky, I say! : ) I have terrible PMS for about 5 ...Lucky, I say! : ) I have terrible PMS for about 5 days prior to my period (swelling, cravings, muscle aches, exhaustion followed by insomnia, high oil production, intestinal distress) and have been having odd, tiny periods already since my son was born less than four months ago. and yes, he nurses on demand- for the first month or so he drank formula too, but I used the pump whenever he had a bottle and nursed whenever I could get him to. And the periods didn't start until after we were full-time on-demand nursing.<br /><br />14 months, huh? *sigh* I wish.Echohttp://echoia.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-24613856660449541672010-01-28T16:57:24.271-08:002010-01-28T16:57:24.271-08:00I'm 12.5 months post-partum and no period yet....I'm 12.5 months post-partum and no period yet. And for weeks or months on end, no breastfeeding at night, but only because DS is an eating machine during the day and sacks out at night. When he's sick or teething, though, a middle-of-the-night feed is normal.Laurahttp://twitter.com/becoming_mothernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-55088796470649296422010-01-28T10:33:14.850-08:002010-01-28T10:33:14.850-08:00With my second child my periods returned about 6 ...With my second child my periods returned about 6 or 7 months after birth when he had started sleeping through when we moved him into his own room. My third child selpt in our bed fed on demand and my periods returned at 4 months. I was quite sad about it and they are regular for the first time in my life. I'm not having any more children so the regular monthly reminderfeels like a kick in the teeth :(Karinanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-58676909419216067322010-01-27T07:08:36.287-08:002010-01-27T07:08:36.287-08:00I was on-demand breastfeeding when my periods came...I was on-demand breastfeeding when my periods came back at around 6 months. I was pretty surprised, actually. I guess you and I help make the average 14 months. Who knows when/why these things start up again.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10920104559343925583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-1333501664929796572010-01-26T16:31:27.242-08:002010-01-26T16:31:27.242-08:00I also am jealous. For me it was just under 7 mont...I also am jealous. For me it was just under 7 months, even with what I considered a high-needs baby and ecological breastfeeding, so I was really expecting 18 months or so off. Oh, well! But I agree that our bodies know what they're doing in most instances and that yours probably knows what you need (or don't need, in this case!).Lauren Waynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07500733577920040395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-89739920948401479652010-01-26T09:42:25.057-08:002010-01-26T09:42:25.057-08:00I'm jealous of anyone who gets lots of time of...I'm jealous of anyone who gets lots of time off from a period. Mine came back 6 weeks postpartum with my first boy (wasn't breastfeeding) and it came back 7 months postpartum with my second (exclusively breastfed, still bfing him today at 20 mos.) I got my period back last time after he started sleeping through the night. Cursed! All I wanted was some sleep, and I got a period to boot. Drat.<br /><br />I'm hoping next time I can drag it out until at LEAST a year.TheFeministBreederhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10870473200937110378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-32183476722758434162010-01-25T05:06:18.334-08:002010-01-25T05:06:18.334-08:00I posted a reply to the comments last Friday, and ...I posted a reply to the comments last Friday, and I just noticed it had not worked :( Thanks for them all - actually I'm surprised at how many people resume menstruation so early, despite breastfeeding and co-sleeping. But I'm obviously in the normal range so I'm not going to worry until I start <i>really</i> wanting to make a brother or sister for Cave Baby!Cave Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08489375502067939290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-29023480921625164292010-01-24T02:37:07.392-08:002010-01-24T02:37:07.392-08:00Totally individual.
"Should I just trust tha...Totally individual.<br /><br />"Should I just trust that my body knows what it's doing?"<br /><br />YES. If you sense something is wrong, then seek medical opinion. But you say you feel fine. Trust that. Enjoy! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11863793441609598153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-45772182565093717912010-01-22T04:46:07.054-08:002010-01-22T04:46:07.054-08:00I got my period back after only a couple of months...I got my period back after only a couple of months and I am still a full time breast feeding mum 17 months later!<br />I think you might be right when you talk about the body being very clever and knowing when it is ready to lose blood (iron)..but a little tip, between my previous two pregnancies (almost 20 years ago), I didn't even get a period...just ovulated and got pregnant straight away.global mamashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16280740132105325678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-65354954405093617482010-01-22T01:42:16.017-08:002010-01-22T01:42:16.017-08:00I got my periods back around 5 months post-partum ...I got my periods back around 5 months post-partum with DD and about 8 months pp with DS despite co-sleeping and demand-feeding around the clock. But my homrones are all screwed up due to PCOS anyway. But I've heard of several women who found that ovulation and menstruation were inhibited by even the the smallest amount of breastfeeding. I suppose it depends on your balance of hormones and your sensitivity to them.<br />I have also read in several places of around 3 years being the 'natural' gap between children if full-term breastfeeding which would point to it being entirely normal not to get periods back until 2 years pp.Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01354606225242312518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-49793315619496480082010-01-21T22:50:16.291-08:002010-01-21T22:50:16.291-08:00I'm jealous. I think I had a few weeks between...I'm jealous. I think I had a few weeks between postpartum bleeding and my first menstrual cycle. I think it's because I had to pump for a while. It's definitely not nature's design to breastfeed full time AND menstruate.<br /><br />Anyway, extreme stress, illness, and malnourishment can hinder menstruation but I don't think that even really stressful motherhood would do it. I think it's gotta be more severe than that. Oh, and I've heard of lactational amenorrhea lasting years for a few women. I think you are in the normal range.Lisa Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00110779167509779880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-38844377260754633352010-01-21T19:55:50.503-08:002010-01-21T19:55:50.503-08:00My girlfriend went 19 months each time. I got 6 mo...My girlfriend went 19 months each time. I got 6 months each time. And we both exclusively breastfed and breastfed around the clock. I've also heard of 2 year breaks. I hear what you're saying but I'd just enjoy it. :)Melodiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05859568015767404451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-67950397908627691032010-01-21T19:47:24.980-08:002010-01-21T19:47:24.980-08:00i am a 'cave mother' too and have had abou...i am a 'cave mother' too and have had about 2 very faint periods in 19 months since the birth of my baby.<br /><br />my partner is an archaeologist and i remember he showed me some stats once that showed stone age birth rates were quite low - around 5 babies per woman, which when you think that they would have started reproducing at 16, points to a larger gap between babies being 'natural' than is common at the moment.<br /><br />another source i read (sorry i forget where) pointed out that nomadic people like early humans could not have afforded to have 2 infants at once because the previous one has to be able to walk alone and keep up with the group before the next arrives. which also points to something like a 3 year gap between babies.<br /><br />so i don't think you need to worry about 'returning to normal'- you ARE normal already, just still in the infant-carrying part of the reproductive cycle. like you say, your body, like mine, is just saying 'wait a bit' for the next little one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-73337070344180127222010-01-21T12:58:47.239-08:002010-01-21T12:58:47.239-08:00I'm still without one at 17 mo., but I had a m...I'm still without one at 17 mo., but I had a miscarriage and no period in between that and my pregnancy with my 17 mo old, so I've technically been w/o one for...hmm...2 1/2 years? I co-sleep and nurse on demand, but I also work full time outside of the home so...go figure.mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06484772153751456302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-48922744920101860782010-01-21T12:55:31.827-08:002010-01-21T12:55:31.827-08:00I got mine back after two months even though we co...I got mine back after two months even though we co-sleep and I breastfed on demand for 22 months, so I think it is definitely down to the individual.<br /><br />being 43 perhaps my body was saying 'don't waste any time, if you want another get on with it!'Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02600442154053131885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-71750707185584958542010-01-21T12:20:36.862-08:002010-01-21T12:20:36.862-08:00I got them back 10 months post partum, when I redu...I got them back 10 months post partum, when I reduced and stopped the pumping at work because I couldn't keep up and it wore me out. So clear link between not exclusively breastfeeding for milk requirements (daughter got 2 formula feeds a day from 9 months) and return of periods. I loved not having them... I have a high need child and we still had very broken nights and co slept every night at that point, so the link was breast feeding related only.cartsidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07443437791014670129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-48890462477893278402010-01-21T10:55:45.661-08:002010-01-21T10:55:45.661-08:00oh yes...enjoy the time off! sometimes they retur...oh yes...enjoy the time off! sometimes they return with a vengeance!amy friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08990100568515103647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-78129437837710743452010-01-21T10:14:15.598-08:002010-01-21T10:14:15.598-08:00I got mine back at 5.5 months, but my fertility di...I got mine back at 5.5 months, but my fertility didn't return until 18 months. That was crazy annoying! You'll have a greater chance at getting both at the same time. :)TopHathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03014761105792283513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-19233632769381519702010-01-21T10:10:31.385-08:002010-01-21T10:10:31.385-08:00I JUST got mine back a few days ago, at 16.5 month...I JUST got mine back a few days ago, at 16.5 months post-partum (our babies are the same age!), and this is what I had to say about it:<br /><br />http://macondomama.blogspot.com/2010/01/hindsight.html<br /><br />I still nurse frequently, day and night, but other than the physical demands of nursing, I don't think my little monkey is particularly challenging (above and beyond the daily exhaustion and frustrations of any tiny little terror).<br /><br />I got my period at 11.5 months with my first, so I guess every time, as well as every woman, is different.<br /><br />I did feel a little relief when I first got it back, just knowing everything still works, but now I would gladly go for a while longer without it. So I say enjoy it while you can.macondo mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09501761743249709573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7000103105398415784.post-48073642989664561262010-01-21T09:39:18.827-08:002010-01-21T09:39:18.827-08:00I'm almost 10 months out from giving birth, an...I'm almost 10 months out from giving birth, and no period yet. I nurse on demand and co-sleep so I'm sure that is why. I've been wondering is I will need to cut back on nursing if we want to concieve our 2nd child by next fall.Oliviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828516083662339236noreply@blogger.com